If you flake on other people,
Than you have a problem of committment,
It only means that you have unresolved problems with yourself,
Unless you settle those issues that are holding you back from within,
You cannot move ahead toward the betterment in your life,
Being stuck in that position can possible lead to a breakdown for a longer period of time,
Hence the loss in on you by your own choice for not moving forward towards the one who is ready to embrace you with open arms irrespective of how damaged you have been, despite the long road to recovery ahead,
You are closing the doors of grace upon yourself in the manner of that one person who is willing to stand by you in thick and thin times,
What will that give you if you pass on such an incoming grace,
A regret that you have to own upto the rest of your life,
If you have someone who cares this much for you,
Do not ever let them go,
Chances are you will never have them again.
Unconditional karma 