Flaking personality

If you flake on other people,

Than you have a problem of committment,

It only means that you have unresolved problems with yourself,

Unless you settle those issues that are holding you back from within,

You cannot move ahead toward the betterment in your life,

Being stuck in that position can possible lead to a breakdown for a longer period of time,

Hence the loss in on you by your own choice for not moving forward towards the one who is ready to embrace you with open arms irrespective of how damaged you have been, despite the long road to recovery ahead,

You are closing the doors of grace upon yourself in the manner of that one person who is willing to stand by you in thick and thin times,

What will that give you if you pass on such an incoming grace,

A regret that you have to own upto the rest of your life,

If you have someone who cares this much for you,

Do not ever let them go,

Chances are you will never have them again.

Drugs and substance abuse

You are a coward , if you use drugs and abuse substances of any kind(marijuana, alcohol etc)to emotionally balance yourself,

All you are doing is running away from yourself and struggles in life that comes in the manner of hardship,Since you assume pain as a form of self inflicted misery,

Such unbalanced practice leads to irrational outcomes in your lives,

And it is no one but you who is completely responsible for it,

Any amount of grace knocks on your door,

You see that as a burden,

Why,because grace comes with a form of responsiblilty only to help you bring back to balance of life again,

And you see that as a curse to be back upon,

So, instead you decide to stay in the world of illusions by complete destroying yourself and the responsiblity of life that comes with it,

Such a notion is beyond any amount of shame,

By seeing your own existence as a curse or taking your own life is an outcome of nothing but a cowardish behavior, which does nothing but spreads around like a virus from one person to the other.

The Presence

When the art itself melts (tears are formed in the manner of pain and suffering that seeks love from within),

It is where the presence of the Artist is felt the most (the eternal beauty in the form of the unconditional),

Through the feeling of sincerity that lies in the form of transparency within, and in that moment the love of the Artist becomes the art of healing itself,

Tears are a beauty that only pours love from within,

Embrace their presence with whole heart rather than seeing them as a notion of suffering.

The real strength

It is better to be aware of your weak points rather than your strong ones,

It will save you a lot of time,

One must know as to how much he/she can bear in tough times,

It will give a clearance into what challenges of life you can accept despite their incoming failures,

And that will be your strength to walk upon irrespective of the outcome.

Suicide

In a lifetime what hurts the most ,more than anything ,

It is when a soul murder itself ,

it kills the aura within that murders the whole concept of life with it,

Regardless of what the reasoning be ,

it cannot be big enough to suicide (self murder)

As the sole concept of death is based upon life itself ( without life , death has no meaning and existense of its own ) ,

than , is it not better and couragable,

to save feelings rather than killing them ourselves ,

to Grace moments by sharing them selflessly,

to live a lifetime

by loving it unconditionally .

Had everything would’ve been easy ,

than where would the purpose of life be ,

With struggles comes the Grace

and with Grace comes the harmony in the form of Balance itself,

Suicide is like tossing all the struggles of your ancestors in the garbage,

Before taking your own life just for once think,

If your ancestors would had done the same,

Would you had even existed to begin with,

And by taking your own life, you not only murder your forthcoming generation but also leaves your unbalanced essence behind that acts like a virus in the atmosphere which linger around and infect those who are seeking hope in their tough times,

Hence suicide becomes an unbreakable chain to this date,

Unless we take full responsibility of our actions as a whole society,

We will keep on looping around such consequences that comes at the cost of life itself.

The root of all problems

If a relationship doesn’t have sincerity in the form of honesty,

Then it’s survival goes through turmoil and torture,

Irrespective of who is sincere between the both,

Whether it is a marital relationship or a business agreement,

Truth cannot be hidden for long,

It has a tendency to find it’s own way to the ones being lied to,

Please help yourself by trying to not make excuses while lying,

You will not be able to hide it for long,

Universe operates in the form of transparency through the notion of reflection itself,

You can try hiding from yourself, but your shadow cannot be hidden,

Neither from yourself and not from the others either that you try to hide from,

Life is too short to play such games,

Try not to lose the chance you have received in the form of mercy,

If you do not respect it,

It can be gone like forever,

Respect everyones existence in the equal manner,

It is the only simplest thing we ask from one another isn’t it.

The stranger

Sometimes,

Those strange eyes,

Leaves so many unanswered questions behind,

standing all alone,

In the moment of silence,

gazing into the reflection

where the answer awaits,

For the shadow that still stands behind .

Scratched

When it comes to love ,

We humans at first, shower everything at it ,

Like there is nothing else that matters,

But , when we fail in love , gets hurt by it ,

All we do is scratch our wounds,

By going against everything that hurts ,

We see pain as our enemy,

Pain that kept us alive ,

That gave us the strength to bear the suffering,

Through which we came more closer to our essence within,

And still we see pain like a monster that needs to be kept away until needed again towards healing ourselves,

Like use it and throw away , when done with it ,

Becoming exactly as same as the one person that treated you like a garbage , while you being in love with,

Next step, we seek healing by hurting everyone around in the manner of hurting ourselves the most,

Becoming ruthless and cold,

Even when universe sends you the gift towards healing in the form of another person,

What we do with it,

Use them and hurt them in the coldest manner possible ,

All for what, a validation to yourself ,

That you have learn the means to play with emotions,

Like yours was once played by,

Is it worth to keep on scratching the old wounds by destroying yourself and everyone around you in the process of it,

Or

Accept the healing and embrace the grace that comes to you with open arms.